Infidelity of the husband - symptoms, evidence, next steps

Anyone can cheat, regardless of gender, but research shows that men cheat more often. Long-term suspicion of a partner's infidelity is unpleasant: it makes sleep difficult, makes it hard to concentrate and tires with the recurring thought "is my husband cheating on me?”

Learn tips from detectives who have witnessed the breakdown of many relationships. Find out how to detect infidelity and how to deal with it.

Signs of a husband's infidelity - 5 warning signs

According to the advice of a private investigator and numerous forum threads, it is not easy to recognize the signs of a husband's infidelity. Dishonest partners usually behave similarly, but their signals are very subtle and often misleading. In addition, the unfaithful spouse may have pre-prepared explanations and excuses for the secrets revealed.

The main signs of infidelity include:

1. Self-care

If your usually neglectful spouse is suddenly trying to maintain his or her line, buying new clothes and exercising, you might as well admit that something is wrong.

It could just be a sudden desire for a lifestyle change, but it could equally mean a desire to pique the interest of another woman.

2. Reduced sexual activity

Your bedroom life was on a high, but suddenly dropped to zero?

It's a signal that your husband has a mistress, or doesn't want to use you because he's committing emotional infidelity, or his libido is simply lower at the moment (there could be many reasons: stress, illness, fatigue).

3. Frequent absence

Does your husband disappear for long hours, lock himself in the bathroom or wander off with his thoughts? During this time, he may be attending to another woman.

Sudden business trips or outings with your not-so-social husband's friends should also arouse your suspicions.

4. The lock on your husband's phone

Has your partner locked access to his electronic devices? Either he's hiding something, or he simply doesn't like others using his private devices.

As our private investigator will tell you, private emails, text messages, and voicemails are often irrefutable evidence of infidelity that your spouse may want to keep from you.

5. Higher expenses

Cheating is often associated with increased expenses, such as hotel bills, gifts for the mistress or dinners out.

Money draining from your bank account is definitely an issue that needs to be discussed so that you can address your concerns.

How to prove my husband's infidelity? Help from a detective

Getting certainty in this situation is difficult in itself. If the signals described above appear in high intensity, they should arouse vigilance. But what if your husband can masterfully disguise himself, denying infidelity and manipulating you?

It's important to remember that the behavior described above may just as well be coincidental and that your husband is being fair to you. However - it is always worth knowing the truth.

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  A private investigator can help detect or rule out infidelity

What solutions can he offer you?

• By acting discreetly, you will control your partner without their knowledge and without the risk of them resenting your lack of trust.
• He will launch a multi-level investigation and look at your husband's contacts, messages and leisure time.
• If possible, you will obtain irrefutable evidence that can be used in court during divorce proceedings and fault determinations or in a fight over the children.
• You will gain the confidence to move forward and leave behind the stress of being suspicious of your husband.

Detective also has advanced technology solutions available.

Technology to help detect infidelity

Modern technology is the answer to the widespread phenomenon of infidelity. Thanks to smart solutions, you can quickly find out if your partner is faithful.

You no longer have to wait for infidelity to reveal itself. Different types of devices and techniques will prove the truth much faster.

How can you detect your husband's infidelity? Ranking the best spy devices

Place	Photo	Name and description	Price
1.		SpyLogger Pro Cloud – Computer Monitoring How do I know if my wife is cheating on me online? If you are concerned about mysterious correspondence on social networks or in chat rooms, it is worth choosing the SpyLogger Pro Cloud computer monitoring program. This software, which is invisible and undetectable by antivirus programs, captures content typed on the keyboard, creates screenshots, records ambient sounds, monitors storage media connected to the device, and allows access to emails, files, and instant messaging conversations. SpyLogger takes only about 5 minutes to install, which is especially useful if you have limited access to your computer.	Price: £ 99,00 View
2.		SemenSPY Deluxe – Infidelity Test Kit Do you have reason to suspect your wife's infidelity? The SemenSPY Deluxe marital infidelity test will help dispel or confirm your growing doubts. The professional kit detects traces of semen on any material without damaging it - so you can discreetly check your underwear or mattress.	Price: £ 62,99 View
3.		SpyPhone Android Pro – Phone Monitoring Mysterious text messages and phone calls from your wife can be a nightmare. Getting evidence of infidelity can be aided by discreet phone tapping via the Spy Phone Android Pro app. The program monitors all of the user's activity on the smartphone or tablet - allowing you to look at voice calls, browsing history, SMS, MMS and instant messaging conversations, as well as view multimedia, emails and contact lists.	Price: £ 189,99 View
4.		PV-FM20HDWI – Clock Spy Camera His wife's infidelity at home is revealed by a disguised VCR. The PV-FM20HDWI spy camera hidden in the multifunction alarm clock allows you to check what is happening at home in your absence without arousing suspicion. Thanks to the built-in motion sensor, the recorder records only valuable footage. For even greater reliability, recordings are date and time stamped.	Price: £ 289,99 View
5.		GPS locator GL300W – Vehicle Tracking The mysterious journeys may also be indicative of an affair. A GPS locator for GL300W Server vehicles will help confirm the infidelity. Thanks to GPS and GLONASS, this small device tracks the vehicle accurately and is also reliable because the two technologies complement each other. The online connectivity option allows you to track the vehicle's location via mobile devices or a computer. The device is characterized by its long operating time, making it particularly suitable for long-term tracking.	Price: £ 299,99 View

Husband's behavior after infidelity

Men usually behave in two ways after a betrayal: either they move out or they try to repair the damage.

In the first situation described, your husband will try to avoid your presence, the state of the relationship will be indifferent to him, and he will spend his free time alone or on a new hobby.

The second pattern of behavior is based on remorse. He may then shower you with gifts, offer more joint activities than usual and convince you of affection.

Many women consider whether to agree to a husband's return after infidelity. There is no clear answer to this question. It is certainly worth thinking it all through and possibly consulting a third party - a psychologist, certified coach or mediator.

Emotional infidelity of the husband. Does it mean the end of the marriage?

Infidelity takes many forms - by some definitions, it does not just involve close physical contact. There is also a broad and not fully explored concept of emotional infidelity.

What, in simple terms, is emotional infidelity on the part of a spouse? It usually involves an intense friendly relationship with a co-existing sexual attraction. As a result, the partner withdraws from his wife, prefers to talk and grieve with another woman, becomes emotionally close to her, and over time has erotic fantasies.

This kind is no less painful than physical infidelity. In such a situation, especially the trust built up over years between the spouses suffers. Its revelation often leads to low self-esteem, feelings of anger and abandonment. A woman betrayed in this way feels helpless and lonely.

How to deal with a husband's emotional infidelity

First of all, it is necessary to cool down emotions. Infidelity is an important indicator of how things are going in a relationship, and not every infidelity necessarily means a breakup.

First of all, it is necessary to consider whether the partner does not feel abandoned for a long time. Perhaps you haven't been paying attention to his needs and have been emotionally neglecting him? Understanding that reciprocated love can still be with you, just a little neglected, will allow you to overcome the problem and build a stronger relationship.

The other possibility is your husband's emotional infidelity, which occurred despite your efforts to have a quality relationship. In this situation, it's worth having a serious talk with your husband to find out his motivation and consider whether restoring the relationship makes sense.

Perhaps your relationship is not working as it should, negative emotions are prevalent, feelings have burned out and you would be much better off alone? You must remember that true and sincere affection can be found at any age and at any stage of life, and clinging to a failed relationship rarely makes sense.

An objective view can be difficult, which is why therapy sessions can be helpful in such a difficult situation.

How to live after your husband's infidelity? A psychologist can help

Whatever kind of infidelity you have experienced, the support of a psychologist can help you cope with the situation. Frequent internet search results, such as "forum on husband's infidelity" or "I can't handle my husband's infidelity", clearly show that wounded women need support from others.

People who do not know how to forget their husband's infidelity or how to forgive him turn to a professional. A psychologist can steer your thoughts in the right direction, suggest decisions about ending the relationship, or show you ways to rebuild trust and help boost your self-esteem.

Depression after a spouse's infidelity is unfortunately also common. In this case, the help of a psychologist and (possibly) a psychiatrist is essential. Depression is a dangerous illness that can also manifest itself in suicidal thoughts. In the final stage, it is not infrequent that you take your own life.